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    When Axel's Engine Stayed On

    Helpful forCo-regulation • Body signals • Big feelings

    When Axel's Engine Stayed On

    Axel loves Carnival Day. But by the time he rolls home, his body is tired and his engine is still fast. He can't settle. His mom stops reminding and correcting. Instead, she parks beside him — quiet, steady, nearby — and gives him language he didn't have: his engine isn't bad, it's just still going.

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    For Kids

    Sometimes your body is tired but your engine won't quiet down — and that's not your fault. A calm grown-up close by can help your engine find slow.

    For Parents

    When a child can't settle after a big day, it can look like defiance — but often the body is tired while the nervous system is still activated. Asking them to try harder is asking them to do something their wiring can't do on demand; a calm grown-up parked beside them usually works better than another reminder.

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    When Axel's Engine Stayed On

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